12 Wisdom Keys to know a Man that truly loves you
1. A man that truly loves you will give to you without asking for your body in return. True love gives and it gives sacrificially and unconditionally . If your lover is not a giver , he is not a true lover . Every true lover is a free giver. When your boyfriend only gives you things just to sleep with you , he doesn't love you much. You can know he loves you when he continues to give to you his time , attention , affection and other material gifts without asking for sex in return .
2. A man who truly loves you may get mad at you but will never beat you. One of the signs that show your boyfriend truly loves you is that he will never raise his hand on you no matter how bad he is provoked . When your boyfriend turns you into a regular punching bag , it shows he doesn't truly love you . Real men always protect the woman they love, they don't beat her. When a guy unnecessarily beats up his girlfriend , it shows that the guy doesn't have a genuine love for her.
3. A man who truly loves you will labour to bring you more closer to God. You will know a Man that truly loves you by how serious he is about helping you to build up your spiritual life . A man that loves you will challenge you by his own character and way of life to refrain from your evil ways and do good. When your boyfriend is making you to fall deeper into sin, worldliness and wickedness , it shows that he doesn't really love you. Does he remind you to pray ? Does he encourage you to go to church ? Does he rebuke you when you do wrong and correct you in love? If yes , then he loves you for real.
4. A man who genuinely loves you will bring out the best in you. A true lover is a plus, a wrong partner is a minus . One of the signs he is in love with you is if he builds you up, motivates you to be the best of you and inspires you to overcome mediocrity , arrogance and other social vices . Does he motivate you to pursue and achieve your life dreams ? Does he influence you positively to unleash the greatness in you? If yes , he loves you for real.
5. A man who loves you will not ask you for sex before marriage. One sure test of love for the man is sex . How to know your boyfriend loves you for real is when he doesn't ask you for sex before marriage . Sex is to the man what oxygen is to the lungs . But true love is patient and waits for the right time before indulging in sex. A guy that doesn't love you will be after what is under your legs . But the one that loves you will be after your total welfare without expecting a payback .
6. A man who loves you will forgive you the moment you say, '' I am sorry '', no matter the gravity of your offense. You will know your boyfriend loves you when he doesn't keep records of your mistakes and offenses . One of the Ways to know if a Man truly loves you is how much he ignores your mistakes and weaknesses . If your boyfriend loves you , he will forgive and forget every wrong thing you did to him as soon as you acknowledge that you are wrong . However , if you are a woman who never sees anything wrong in whatever she does , you may put yourself into a very big trouble . Because two wrongs never make a right . As a lady who wants to have a happy and successful relationship, when you make mistakes , acknowledge and accept your fault . Don't expect forgiveness if you are too arrogant and can never say, "I am sorry " .
7. The man who loves you will not cheat on you. When you find a man who is faithful to you in every matter of the heart , then you have found true love . A man who loves you will never date another girl while he is dating you. He will be completely satisfied with you. If a guy keeps several girlfriends and sexual partners , he doesn't love you . True love binds a man to one woman until death does them apart .
8. A man who truly loves you will tell you the truth even if it will cost his life. Men are good at keeping secrets but when a man loves you , he can tell you all his secrets . You will know your boyfriend loves you when he can tell you the truth even when it hurts . A guy who always lies to you doesn't love you . Some men have sweet tongues and when they tell lies , it will sound like the truth . So be very careful when you are dealing with a crafty guy . Don't believe his words until you can prove him truthful . Many ladies have been deceived by the lies of ungodly men. Be careful . When you find a truthful lover , you have found a true love .
9. A man who loves you will celebrate and appreciate you whenever you do something good. A genuine appreciation from your man is a clue that he loves you and values your good works . When your boyfriend always criticize you, blame you and condemn everything you do , he is not in love with you . When nothing you do pleases him, he is not in love with you . You will know a Man that truly loves you by his appreciation and value for your little good efforts .
10. A man who loves you will love your people. True love does not discriminate . When your boyfriend loves your parents , siblings , friends and other extended family members , it shows he truly loves you . Your true lover will not only love you , he will also love your people . Your family will be his family and your people will be his people .
11. A man who loves you will share his joy and sadness with you. A man who truly loves you will share his life with you . He will make you his best friend and confident . When he is sad and needs someone to cheer him up, he will run to you. And when he succeeds and needs someone to celebrate with , he will run to you. A guy who comes to you only when things are bad but doesn't remember you when good things come to his hands doesn't really love you.
12. A man who loves you will rebuke you when you are wrong and correct you in love. One of the sure ways to know your boyfriend loves you is that he will rebuke you when you are wrong and correct you in love. If your man claps hands for you when you are falling into the gutter , he doesn't love you . True love does not rejoice in evil. Others may keep quiet and allow you to destroy yourself but a man who loves you won't let that happen . He will hold you when you want to fall . That's why two are better than one . May you find such a man who will be your lifetime lover , friend and companion
and who will fill your life with happiness , please and joy like a river . God bless you .
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