The Importance of Sex in Marriage

"And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed." Gen 2:25
Many marriages are yet to recover from the shame of adultery and infidelity. If you want to stay away from the shame of adultery and infidelity in your marriage, begin to see the importance of effective sex life in your marriage. Let me say this in a very clear term, sex before marriage is sin. It is called fornication. And God hates it. Sex with someone outside your marriage is adultery. God hates adultery, that's why he prepared the marriage bed to give the husband and his wife the opportunity to get all the sexual satisfaction they desire. Until you get married, you have no license to have sex. If you are single, zip up ! Sex is worth waiting for. Anything that is worth doing is worth doing well. Then to our married men and women, the day you got married was the day you signed a lifetime contract for sex with your spouse. You are not doing your spouse any favour by giving him or her sex. It is your spouse's conjugal right to have sex with you any time, any day any where. The bible puts it this way, "Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.  Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency." 1 Cor 7:3-5
 When you deny your spouse sex, God sees you as a fraudster. Sex is very important in marriage to keep your marriage away from shame. If you don't like sex, it is not an excuse. Since your spouse likes it, you are under obligation to satisfy your spouse sexually. Sex is to marriage what air is to the nostrils. Incase you don't know, there are many prostitutes out there roaming the streets to steal away your spouse. Don't give your spouse a reason to look outside. What makes you think another man or woman is using charm to take your spouse away from you? If you don't know the name of that charm, it is sex. And if another woman or man takes your spouse due to your negligence in sex, you are a big fool. What does he/she has that you don't have? If they know how to do it, you can learn to do it even better. Don't turn your face to the wall and pretend to be sleeping any time your spouse touches you for sex.
. . . To be Continued !
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- Damian Alamba

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