Why Men Always Ask You For Sex Before Marriage
" Why do I end up with the worst of men? Why do I always experience one sided love in a relationship? Why is mine different? Why is it all sex? Is there no more love?"
These were the rhetorical questions and heart cry of a lady. I decided to provide some answers to these questions because of several other ladies around the world who are going through the same ordeal. Ladies, I tell you the truth, true love is real, but it is not cheap. Every important treasure on earth comes with a price tag. Your hunger for True love will cost you to say no to so many relationships, delete some numbers from your phone, cancel some appointments and separate yourself totally from so many fake people. If you don't really know what you want in a relationship, you can fall for anything. But when your mind is already made up on what you want, you won't even need to ask those questions up there because you won't start a relationship without a divine destination. Many people have found true love who dated them for years and married them without having sex with them until their wedding night. I am in a relationship with one of the most beautiful women in this world but we have never had sex even for once. It is not because we don't like sex. It is because we are born again and true born again Christians don't have sex before marriage. Secondly, we want to honour God in our relationship. Thirdly, we love each other more than sex itself. Now what do you learn from my story? If you want to experience real love, first you must be born again. Because without Christ, your relationship will always be in crises. After salvation, the second thing you need is decision, make up your mind that no man will see your pant until your wedding night. Make up your mind that no man who has not paid your bride price will touch your breasts. Make up your mind to die a single than to get married to the wrong person. When you have defined what you want, the next thing you must do if you want to get your heart desire is to become the right person.If you are a cheap girl, you will also meet a cheap man. If you are a sexually loosed girl, you will also meet a sexually loosed man. You will always attract who you are. If the men coming to you are always asking for sex, check yourself something is wrong with you.It could be that you always dress and look sexy instead of saintly. Any time someone looks at yon and says, "you are looking sexy". It means you are looking like someone who wants to have sex. If you reply thank you, it shows where your problem is. A married woman is the only lady who has the right to look and dress sexy only in her bedroom with her husband. A single lady who is not yet married has no business dressing or looking sexy. Who are you dressing or looking sexy for in the public? Except you are looking for a man to sleep with you. As a single lady, you should always dress and look saintly. Men should look at you and see Christ in you as the only hope of your glory. Men should look at you and desire to serve God. Men should look at you and appreciate the dignity of womanhood. If you wear only bra and pant in the presence of a man, why won't that man ask you for sex. Men are sexually aroused by what they see. If you can dress decently whether you are alone with a guy in the house or in public, the chances are no man will ask you for sex before marriage. It could be because all they see in you is just your breasts, buttocks and fine face nothing spiritual or godly that could refrain them from mustering nasty thoughts about you. A man should look at you and see greatness in you. If a man looks at you and see a great woman of God in you, he won't ask you for sex even if he is a he-goat. That's why as a single lady, you should not only waste your time, energy and money buying all kinds of make up. Invest your time, energy and money to buy books, attend seminars and invest in materials that will develop your capacity and build up your personality. Another reason why Men Always Ask You for Sex Before marriage could be that your thoughts are not far from sex. If you always occupy your mind with sexual fantasies , men will always ask you for sex. Because as a man thinks in his heart, so is he. You are what you think. If you fill and occupy your mind and thoughts with immoral thoughts, pornographic pictures and movies, there is no way it won't show up in your relationship. If you you believe in sex before marriage, you will surely see one man or the other asking you for one. If you are of the opinion that love is a feeling, romance or sex, you will pay dearly for your wrong perspective about love with every man who comes on your way asking you to prove your love with sex. But love is not just a feeling. Love is God. Love is showing someone the nature of God. Love is Commitment. A Real man won't ask you for sex before marriage. Because love is patient, he will patiently wait until your wedding night. Love is real, and true love is also real. Anyone can find true love but it takes alot of godly discipline and sacrifice to keep it. Love is not partial because God is not partial. But until you find God, you cannot find love. True love is only hidden in God. Go to God and stay with Him and true love will come looking for you.
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